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Questions About Intimacy
Relationships

35 Questions to Improve Intimacy

What is something you want to do before you die? Why? What do you want to accomplish next in your life? If you were to write a novel, what would it be about? What genre would it be? If you could play any instrument (that you currently don’t), what is Read more…

By Molly, 5 months ago
Oral Sex

Blowjob 101: Avoiding Your Teeth Edition

Struggling to not hit your teeth when you’re giving a blowjob? Well, don’t worry! Here’s everything you need to know to keep those chompers out of the way and ensure pleasure is the only thing he needs to worry about it. If you’d prefer to read than watch, look below Read more…

By Molly, 6 months ago
Act Dominant
Kink

25 Ways to Act Dominant in the Bedroom and Have Some Fun

Whether you already know you’re kinky or just started dating someone who’s into power exchange, it can be hard to come up with ways to act dominant into your relationship beyond rough sex and some well-timed spanking. But it doesn’t have to be hard or overly elaborate (although it totally Read more…

By Molly, 7 months ago
controlling sexual urges
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Do I Control My Sexual Urges?

This week’s reader question is all about controlling those sexual urges! Dear Molly, I am a young man and probably going through some changes mentally and physically, but how do I distract myself from fantasizing about sexual things? I’m attracted to women , especially those from ages 35 – 45 Read more…

By Molly, 10 months ago
molly talking about mutual masturbation
Become a Better Lover

Mutual Masturbation: 5 Reasons to Give It a Try Tonight

Mutual masturbation may not be something you’d normally consider when thinking of spicing up your relationship, but I’m here to tell you, it can and does. Watch my newest YouTube video (go ahead and subscribe while you’re there) and check out five reasons you should give mutual masturbation a try Read more…

By Molly, 11 months ago
intimacy without sex holding hands
Sex Tips

Intimacy without Sex: 7 Ways to Make It Happen

How to gain intimacy without sex… We’d like to imagine that we’re going to have amazing sex all of our lives, but there’s a good chance that each of us will experience times when sex isn’t possible, even when we’re in a relationship. Maybe it’s those six weeks after childbirth Read more…

By Molly, 11 months ago
swinging couples
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Do You Feel about Swinging?

What is your feeling on swinging? Recently I found out a couple I’ve known for years are into “The Lifestyle” and, quite frankly, I’m not sure how I feel about it. They’ve been married 15 years (I’m on 11 years and counting). It feels like cheating. Doesn’t it? I don’t Read more…

By Molly, 11 months ago
molly talking about faking orgasms
Have Better Orgasms

Faking Orgasm: Is It Ever Okay?

Is faking orgasm ever okay? I’d like to say no. No. No. No. Watch the video to find out why! As always, if you don’t do the whole YouTube thing, keep reading! Lots and Lots of People Fake Orgasms. So while the general population doesn’t seem to have an issue Read more…

By Molly, 11 months ago
molly talking about how to initiate sex
Become a Better Lover

10 Easy and Fun Ways to Initiate Sex Tonight!

One of the problems I hear again and again from couples is that in many relationships, it’s primarily left to one partner to initiate sex. And if that partner didn’t come on to the other, sex would basically never happen. Although this is not solely a cis-hetero problem, it is Read more…

By Molly, 12 months ago
oral sex is only sex
Oral Sex

Our Only Sex Is Oral Sex and I’d Like More!

Hey Molly, My girlfriend and I enjoy intimacy, but we get each other off pretty much exclusively with oral. It’s fun, but here’s the dilemma we have when we have intercourse. If she finishes from oral first, intercourse doesn’t really feel like anything to her. That makes it not as Read more…

By Molly, 12 months ago

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About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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