How to gain intimacy without sex… We’d like to imagine that we’re going to have amazing sex all of our lives, but there’s a good chance that each of us will experience times when sex isn’t possible, even when we’re in a relationship. Maybe it’s those six weeks after childbirth Read more…
What is your feeling on swinging? Recently I found out a couple I’ve known for years are into “The Lifestyle” and, quite frankly, I’m not sure how I feel about it. They’ve been married 15 years (I’m on 11 years and counting). It feels like cheating. Doesn’t it? I don’t Read more…
Is faking orgasm ever okay? I’d like to say no. No. No. No. Watch the video to find out why! As always, if you don’t do the whole YouTube thing, keep reading! Lots and Lots of People Fake Orgasms. So while the general population doesn’t seem to have an issue Read more…
One of the problems I hear again and again from couples is that in many relationships, it’s primarily left to one partner to initiate sex. And if that partner didn’t come on to the other, sex would basically never happen. Although this is not solely a cis-hetero problem, it is Read more…
Hey Molly, My girlfriend and I enjoy intimacy, but we get each other off pretty much exclusively with oral. It’s fun, but here’s the dilemma we have when we have intercourse. If she finishes from oral first, intercourse doesn’t really feel like anything to her. That makes it not as Read more…
If you’re getting ready to have anal sex for the first time, you may feel a little nervous. Don’t worry! That’s normal. To ease your anxiety, here are a few things you should know that can make the experience easier and more pleasurable. Before we get started, a quick anatomy Read more…
Believe it or not, you are a sexual being. You brain and your body were designed to both want sex and to benefit from it. Your mental health and your relationships benefit from sex (both alone and with a partner), too! Keep reading to find out how!
Here is the ultimate guide to low libido. From what causes a low sex drive to why it matters and how you can fix, it’s everything you need to get your desire back!
This week’s YouTube video discusses one of my favorite topics, scheduling sex! I talk about why it’s important (so we can have more and better sex) and why waiting for spontaneous sex is harmful to our relationships.
Sex is fun. And when you add the element of outdoors, it can feel damn near thrilling. But before you go tramping off into the woods with your partner, take a quick look at these five lessons in sex outside. 1. The Elements Rock. Except when They Don’t. Outdoor sex Read more…
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