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Become a Better Lover

Whether you want improve your oral sex skills or learn what positions bring your partner the most pleasure, you can find the information you need to become a better lover here.

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Become a Better Lover

Blowjob 101: How You Can Set a Pace and Keep Rhythm

Here’s another post for you as we discuss ways to give a better blowjob. A few days ago, I posted about avoiding your teeth when giving head, and now we’re moving on to blowjob rhythm. So go ahead and check out my video. Be sure to like and subscribe while Read more…

By Molly, 5 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

What Is Intimate Communication?

What is intimate communication? Why is it important? And what can you do to get more of it in your life? YouTube not your thing? Keep reading below to see what I covered! What is intimate communication? Intimate communication is the type of communication that happens when you reveal information Read more…

By Molly, 5 months ago
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5 Communication Barriers Standing in the Way of Intimacy

Communication is hard. And when it comes to talking about sex and intimacy, it’s even harder. And one of the things that make it is so difficult to say what we want and what we mean is that many of us have communication barriers that stand in the way of Read more…

By Molly, 6 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

First Time Having Sex? Here’s What You Need to Have Fun

Hi Molly! I’m going on a Christmas holiday with my girlfriend. We’ve slept together, but we haven’t had sex. But I think we may on this trip. If we do, it will be my first time having sex. How do I approach it? How do I start the conversation? Also, Read more…

By Molly, 7 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

Mutual Masturbation: 5 Reasons to Give It a Try Tonight

Mutual masturbation may not be something you’d normally consider when thinking of spicing up your relationship, but I’m here to tell you, it can and does. Watch my newest YouTube video (go ahead and subscribe while you’re there) and check out five reasons you should give mutual masturbation a try Read more…

By Molly, 9 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

How to Find the Clitoris: A Guide with Props

Have you ever struggled to find the clitoris? If so, you’re not alone! To help you out, this week’s YouTube video shows exactly where it’s at so you know how to find the clitoris when you need to. For those of you who don’t like YouTube, I’m going to try Read more…

By Molly, 10 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

10 Easy and Fun Ways to Initiate Sex Tonight!

One of the problems I hear again and again from couples is that in many relationships, it’s primarily left to one partner to initiate sex. And if that partner didn’t come on to the other, sex would basically never happen. Although this is not solely a cis-hetero problem, it is Read more…

By Molly, 10 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

Edging Basics: What It Is, What It Does and Why You Should Try It

Here are your edging basics for beginners! Check out my latest YouTube video that discusses edging basics for folks who’s never played with orgasm control. Check it out, and be sure to subscribe while you’re there! So edging. What the hell is it anyway? Edging is a technique used to Read more…

By Molly, 11 months ago
Become a Better Lover

Wanna Be a Good Kisser: 7 Tips to Know

If you’ve ever been concerned you’re not a good kisser, don’t fret! Here are seven secrets you can use to perfect your kissing style and become a kisser than makes a partner melt!

By Molly, 11 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

Why You Should Schedule Sex, Especially If You Want More

This week’s YouTube video discusses one of my favorite topics, scheduling sex! I talk about why it’s important (so we can have more and better sex) and why waiting for spontaneous sex is harmful to our relationships.

By Molly, 11 months ago
About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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Molly Carter

I'm Molly and I'm here to help you discover and create the sex life you've always wanted. Welcome to Your Best Sexual Self.

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Intimate Communication: What It Is and How to Make It Happen.
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Sometimes the hardest part of giving a good blow job is finding the right rhythm. Check out this video to learn what you can do!

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Blowjob 101: Rhythm
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In this video, I help you learn how to avoid your teeth when you've got a penis in your mouth and give you some tips for when you're really struggling. 

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Blowjobs 101: Watch those teeth edition!
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If you've ever wanted to know more about female ejaculation, you've come to the right place! Here's your guide to squirting orgasms!

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Squirting 101: Your Guide to Female Ejaculation
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The final video in my Blow & Glow Couple's Kit review (finally, I know!).
Review of the Blow & Glow Videos
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Are you a novice lover? Worried about the pleasure your partner is experiencing? Check out this video where I cover how to touch a vulva and bring more pleasure to a sexual experience.

Please excuse my lighting issue!

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How to Touch a Vulva with Your Fingers and Mouth: The Fundamentals
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If you or your partner have a small penis or struggle with quality erections, check out this video with 4 ways to compensate (if you feel you need to).

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4 Ways to Compensate for a Small Penis or Soft Erection
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ExSoullent Yoni Egg Set Review
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Are you ready to open up communication with your lover? Than download my special report: 10 Building Blocks of Intimate Communication today! https://fierce-maker-2112.ck.page/210a600dc1

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