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Become a Better Lover

Reader Question: How to Be a Dominant Man in Today’s World

Check out this reader’s questions, all about how a dominant man can navigate the modern #MeToo world. Hey Molly, From a guy´s perspective, it seems culture is changing very rapidly. The #MeToo movement (which I totally understand and support) proposes that relationship dynamics, where a guy is in a dominant Read more…

By Molly, 4 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

First Time Having Sex? Here’s What You Need to Have Fun

Hi Molly! I’m going on a Christmas holiday with my girlfriend. We’ve slept together, but we haven’t had sex. But I think we may on this trip. If we do, it will be my first time having sex. How do I approach it? How do I start the conversation? Also, Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Reader's Questions

My Partner’s Not Out and I’m Not Sure What to Do

Dear Molly, My and my boyfriend got together and it’s been going great until we’re at our performing arts college (which is SO supportive of LGBT relationships) where he doesn’t give me much affection and our conversations feel quite surface level. He hasn’t come out to his parents yet and fears if Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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An Anal Sex Q&A: This Week’s Reader Question

Dear Molly, If sex is meant to share intimacy and make babies, why is it that some girls do anal sex? I think anal sex is not natural, where vaginal sex is, and also painful. This is my thought only and I respect every individuals personal choice and preferences. In Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Reader's Questions

How to Have an Active Sex Life When You Have Young Kids

This week’s reader question is one I get a lot. Basically, how the hell do you have an active sex life when you have young kids at home? I had three kids in four years. While sex was always an important part of my relationship, when the children were young, Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Do I Control My Sexual Urges?

This week’s reader question is all about controlling those sexual urges! Dear Molly, I am a young man and probably going through some changes mentally and physically, but how do I distract myself from fantasizing about sexual things? I’m attracted to women , especially those from ages 35 – 45 Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Reader's Questions

Reader Question: Women & Sexless Marriages – Do They Even Care?

This week’s reader question comes from YouTube and focused on women and sexless marriages. Why do wives think sex isn’t important during marriage, but while dating, they had sex more?   Well, there are a lot of ways to answer the question this question as I think there are various Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Do You Feel about Swinging?

What is your feeling on swinging? Recently I found out a couple I’ve known for years are into “The Lifestyle” and, quite frankly, I’m not sure how I feel about it. They’ve been married 15 years (I’m on 11 years and counting). It feels like cheating. Doesn’t it? I don’t Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Oral Sex

Our Only Sex Is Oral Sex and I’d Like More!

Hey Molly, My girlfriend and I enjoy intimacy, but we get each other off pretty much exclusively with oral. It’s fun, but here’s the dilemma we have when we have intercourse. If she finishes from oral first, intercourse doesn’t really feel like anything to her. That makes it not as Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Erotica

Reader Question: I Want to Write Erotica, But I Have Some Concerns

This week’s reader question focuses on how to write erotica. Dear Molly, I’m a guy wanting to write erotica shorts, but I’m hesitant because of the cliché that people who write erotica are constantly aroused and masturbating. I was hoping you could offer some advice. Is there a scene you Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago

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I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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