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Questions About Intimacy
Relationships

35 Questions to Improve Intimacy

What is something you want to do before you die? Why? What do you want to accomplish next in your life? If you were to write a novel, what would it be about? What genre would it be? If you could play any instrument (that you currently don’t), what is Read more…

By Molly, 4 months ago
intimate communication
Become a Better Lover

What Is Intimate Communication?

What is intimate communication? Why is it important? And what can you do to get more of it in your life? YouTube not your thing? Keep reading below to see what I covered! What is intimate communication? Intimate communication is the type of communication that happens when you reveal information Read more…

By Molly, 5 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

5 Communication Barriers Standing in the Way of Intimacy

Communication is hard. And when it comes to talking about sex and intimacy, it’s even harder. And one of the things that make it is so difficult to say what we want and what we mean is that many of us have communication barriers that stand in the way of Read more…

By Molly, 6 months ago
Reader's Questions

My Partner’s Not Out and I’m Not Sure What to Do

Dear Molly, My and my boyfriend got together and it’s been going great until we’re at our performing arts college (which is SO supportive of LGBT relationships) where he doesn’t give me much affection and our conversations feel quite surface level. He hasn’t come out to his parents yet and fears if Read more…

By Molly, 8 months ago
sexless marriages
Relationships

Coffee W/ Molly: Bullshit Information on Sexless Marriages

This morning I was reading a book about sexless marriages while I was enjoying my morning coffee and I got a little frustrated about the bullshit they were spewing about sex. Here’s a video about it. (I was still in my PJs for goodness sakes!) If you’d rather read about Read more…

By Molly, 8 months ago
be selfish
Relationships

This Is Why You Sometimes Need to Be Selfish in Your Relationship

Sometimes, it’s okay to be selfish in your relationship. Yep. I said it. Because it’s true. Check out this YouTube video to find out why. Or just scroll past it for the written version! Be sure to subscribe while you’re there!! Why you need to be selfish sometimes… So… Life Read more…

By Molly, 8 months ago
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Reader's Questions

How to Have an Active Sex Life When You Have Young Kids

This week’s reader question is one I get a lot. Basically, how the hell do you have an active sex life when you have young kids at home? I had three kids in four years. While sex was always an important part of my relationship, when the children were young, Read more…

By Molly, 9 months ago
women and sexless marriage
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: Women & Sexless Marriages – Do They Even Care?

This week’s reader question comes from YouTube and focused on women and sexless marriages. Why do wives think sex isn’t important during marriage, but while dating, they had sex more?   Well, there are a lot of ways to answer the question this question as I think there are various Read more…

By Molly, 9 months ago
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Become a Better Lover

10 Easy and Fun Ways to Initiate Sex Tonight!

One of the problems I hear again and again from couples is that in many relationships, it’s primarily left to one partner to initiate sex. And if that partner didn’t come on to the other, sex would basically never happen. Although this is not solely a cis-hetero problem, it is Read more…

By Molly, 10 months ago
Become a Better Lover

Wanna Be a Good Kisser: 7 Tips to Know

If you’ve ever been concerned you’re not a good kisser, don’t fret! Here are seven secrets you can use to perfect your kissing style and become a kisser than makes a partner melt!

By Molly, 11 months ago

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About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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Molly Carter

I'm Molly and I'm here to help you discover and create the sex life you've always wanted. Welcome to Your Best Sexual Self.

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Intimate Communication: What It Is and How to Make It Happen.
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Sometimes the hardest part of giving a good blow job is finding the right rhythm. Check out this video to learn what you can do!

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Blowjob 101: Rhythm
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In this video, I help you learn how to avoid your teeth when you've got a penis in your mouth and give you some tips for when you're really struggling. 

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Blowjobs 101: Watch those teeth edition!
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If you've ever wanted to know more about female ejaculation, you've come to the right place! Here's your guide to squirting orgasms!

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Squirting 101: Your Guide to Female Ejaculation
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The final video in my Blow & Glow Couple's Kit review (finally, I know!).
Review of the Blow & Glow Videos
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Are you a novice lover? Worried about the pleasure your partner is experiencing? Check out this video where I cover how to touch a vulva and bring more pleasure to a sexual experience.

Please excuse my lighting issue!

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How to Touch a Vulva with Your Fingers and Mouth: The Fundamentals
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If you or your partner have a small penis or struggle with quality erections, check out this video with 4 ways to compensate (if you feel you need to).

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4 Ways to Compensate for a Small Penis or Soft Erection
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Watch my review of the Rose Quartz Yoni Egg Set by ExSoullent and an overview of their other products.
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ExSoullent Yoni Egg Set Review
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Are you ready to open up communication with your lover? Than download my special report: 10 Building Blocks of Intimate Communication today! https://fierce-maker-2112.ck.page/210a600dc1

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