sexual freedom is not censorship

Sexual Freedom Starts with Us

I wrote this piece about sexual freedom nearly a decade ago. I’ve pulled it back out of the archives in recognition of the Trans Day of Visibility, which was yesterday, March 31. But this isn’t about being trans. Or gay. Or bi. Or any of the things. But it is Read more…

nipple torture

Your Guide to Nipple Torture

If you’ve ever wanted to know more about extreme nipple play, aka nipple torture, you’ve come to the right place! Here’s your ultimate guide, covering everything you need to know. And then some.


A Dominant’s Duty

The hubby and I were having a random conversation about spanking, whipping, and caning, in which He said something along the lines of, “I think I’m going to make you safeword.” And it got me thinking… I’ve never truly safeworded. Once, when He was tickling me–non-sexually–and once during an argument. Read more…