I talk about sex like most people talk about the weather.

I’m assuming that won’t bother you.

You should probably know that I say things like pussy. Cock.


I say that one a lot.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In fact, I’m sort of passionate about it.

And I’m here to provide you with the information you want about sex, but are afraid to ask.

Like is my dick too small? Stop worrying about your dick size! No one cares as much as you do! But if you can’t get over it, optimize your length with these positions. And be sure to read this.

And maybe turn you on a little bit. Try this. Or this. Or maybe even this.

Maybe I should back up a minute.


I’m Molly.

And this is, rather obviously, my blog. 

See, as far back as my adolescence, I always wanted to be a sex therapist. Starting in early high school, I started studying sex, reading everything I could get my hands on from Masters and Johnson to The Story of O to Penthouse Forums.

It’s no wonder I’m a pervert.

About molly in corset and long socks

Excuse my messy bedroom.


While I didn’t end up as a sex therapist, I did end up as a bit of a sexpert. And

 relationship coach. And I write about sex because I’ve seen too many folks struggle with their relationships. I’ve had too many friends come to me and share their sexual struggles.

I once had a female friend tells me she wanted more sex from her husband, all the while, unbeknownst to her, her hubby asked me two weeks before what he could do to get her more sexually interested in him. This is always a good place to start.

I’ve come to the conclusion that in many couples, they both want to have good sex, they just don’t know how to make it happen.

Well, I’m here to help you make it happen. I want to help you find your best sexual self, whatever that means to you. 

So whether you’re 18 and single or 65 and on your third (or sixth) marriage. Whether you do it with a partner or by yourself, with a friend or with your left hand, I’m here to help you get the sex you want and create the sex life you need, whatever that may be.

I hope you enjoy my blog. I hope it feels like talking to a friend.

Feel free to leave comments and ask questions. Please.

Blogging is a solitary past time.

You can even email me privately at molly@yourbestsexualself.com. And be sure to sign up for my newsletter, which is delivered every Friday. Well. Mostly every Friday.


PS: I hope you stick around. People say I’m fun to hang around with.


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