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Hi y’all.

So I’m Molly and this is my blog. In January of 2012, I started an anonymous sex and relationship blog that changed my life. It introduced me to some people who would eventually become great friends, it improved my relationship and my sex life with my husband, and it lead to me into a career path I had never considered.

It all started because I’d seen too many friends and acquaintances struggle with their relationships and non-existent sex lives. I wanted to take a stand and promote the idea that a great sex life can happen, even when you’ve been married for decades.

Now, after years of writing behind a pen name, I’ve decided it’s time to reveal myself, to allow people to see the face behind the words, the real me instead of the mask.

Here at Your Best Sexual Self, my goal is to help you find exactly that, your best sexual self,  whatever that means to you. Whether you’re 18 and single or 65 and on your third (or sixth) marriage. Whether you do it with a partner or by yourself, with a friend or with your left hand, I’m here to help you get the sex you want and create the sex life you need, whatever that may be.

I hope you enjoy my blog. I hope when you read my words, it feels like talking to a friend. Feel free to leave comments and ask questions. You can even email me privately at