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How Do I Get My Boyfriend to Be More Kinky? 5 Ways to Try Tonight

How do I get my boyfriend to be more kinky? My boyfriend talked himself up as into a lot of different sexual stuff, mostly BDSM related, but we have a super routine, vanilla sex life. I’m totally down with being tied up, biting, maybe even choking, even though I’ve never Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader Question: I’ve started to talk dirty to my wife… What do I do next?

I have been married for 30 years. I started to talk dirty a little bit to my wife in bed, thanks to your guide, and she’s starting to come out of her shell.  So far, I’ve primarily just used words like fuck, dick, and pussy. But now what do I do? Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader Question: What kind of porn do women who watch porn like?

What kind of porn to do women who watch porn like? Well, I guess that would totally depend on the woman, but here’s a general consensus on what women think of porn. Women, in general of course, like to watch porn that’s more about intimacy and pleasure then it is Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader Question: How Can I Help My Girl Have More Bedroom Confidence?

Can men help women in the confidence department, as in bedroom confidence? Or is that an area that a woman has to do herself? You can totally help your woman gain confidence in the bedroom, but it can take some time and you’ve got to be patient with her. Putting Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader Question: How can I last long enough for my girl?

Dear Miss Molly, I don’t think I last long enough for my girl. Can guys increase their lasting time? ~ John Doe Well, John, there are absolutely some things men can do to help them last long enough in bed. But before we get to the how-tos, I want to Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader Question: Why Doesn’t My Boyfriend Go Down on Me?

There could be a lot of reasons your boyfriend doesn’t go down on you. Maybe he’s not feeling it tonight. Maybe he doesn’t know how and he’s self-conscious and he doesn’t want to disappoint you. Or maybe you have bad hygiene and your pussy smells like tuna. No, that’s not what Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago

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About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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