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Become a Better Lover

Blowjob 101: How You Can Set a Pace and Keep Rhythm

Here’s another post for you as we discuss ways to give a better blowjob. A few days ago, I posted about avoiding your teeth when giving head, and now we’re moving on to blowjob rhythm. So go ahead and check out my video. Be sure to like and subscribe while Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Oral Sex

Blowjob 101: Avoiding Your Teeth Edition

Struggling to not hit your teeth when you’re giving a blowjob? Well, don’t worry! Here’s everything you need to know to keep those chompers out of the way and ensure pleasure is the only thing he needs to worry about it. If you’d prefer to read than watch, look below Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Oral Sex

Our Only Sex Is Oral Sex and I’d Like More!

Hey Molly, My girlfriend and I enjoy intimacy, but we get each other off pretty much exclusively with oral. It’s fun, but here’s the dilemma we have when we have intercourse. If she finishes from oral first, intercourse doesn’t really feel like anything to her. That makes it not as Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Oral Sex

What does it feel like for a woman to have her vagina sucked?

This week’s reader question about having the vagina sucked is actually a question Quora shut down. Fuckers. So if it sounds familiar, and you follow me over there, there’s a chance you’ve already seen this. So… This is a tricky question. See, you can’t really suck a woman’s vagina, because Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader's Questions

Bushy or Bald: A Personal Analysis of Pubic Hair Shaving

Dear Molly, What are your thoughts about pubic hair? ~ Harry Hiney Thank you for the question, Harry! I always appreciate reader questions because it means I don’t have to think up a topic to write about! #Bonus When it comes to pubic hair, I have personal preferences, but I Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader's Questions

Reader Question: Why Doesn’t My Boyfriend Go Down on Me?

There could be a lot of reasons your boyfriend doesn’t go down on you. Maybe he’s not feeling it tonight. Maybe he doesn’t know how and he’s self-conscious and he doesn’t want to disappoint you. Or maybe you have bad hygiene and your pussy smells like tuna. No, that’s not what Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Oral Sex

The Ultimate Blow Job Guide: New and Improved

Want to know how to give a blow job he’ll never forget? Keep reading!

By Molly, 3 years ago
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Oral Sex

How to Improve the Taste of Cum and Make Her Lick Her Lips

I’ve talked about the reasons to swallow seamen (it’s for your health!), but I didn’t think to mention how you can improve the taste of cum and make your partner lick their lips! Because, if I’m honest with the guys here for a moment, sometimes your spunk is… well… a Read more…

By Molly, 4 years ago
oral sex
Oral Sex

Your Guide to Eating Pussy

It was years ago when I wrote the tutorials about blow jobs and I always wanted to write one about eating pussy. Then I was dating this girl and it had been a LONG time since I’d been with a woman, so I started doing some research on the best Read more…

By Molly, 4 years ago
Oral Sex

Guide to the Perfect Blow Job

Okay, so maybe a chick shouldn’t be writing about the perfect blow job. It very well might be a job for a man. But I’m not 100% sure on that. I don’t know if my Hubby has the slightest clue what I’m doing with my hands, mouth, and tongue when Read more…

By Molly, 5 years ago

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About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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