If you do this stop. Seriously it’s not nice and using sex as a weapon can screw with your relationship. In my humble opinion, I don’t believe that you should ever use sex as a weapon or for leverage (unless you are in a D/s relationship and it’s wrapped up Read more…
It’s time to stop, ladies. Faking orgasms is a habit you should have quit long ago. Or, better yet, never picked up in the first place. It’s not helping you, it’s not helping him, it’s not helping anyone. I’m sure lots of you can give me multiple reasons of why Read more…
Stuck in a sex slump? It happens. We’ve all been there at one point or another. Life gets in the way; you’re busy at work, the kids are sick, and when it comes down to it, you’re tired and stressed and sex becomes the last thing on your mind (which is Read more…
It’s not kink. It’s not a man with an Alpha gene. It’s trust. Pure and simple. A dear friend of mine is struggling in her marriage. Recently separated, but still together, it’s almost painful to watch what they’re doing to each other. Just the other day, we were talking and Read more…
The hubby and I were having a random conversation about spanking, whipping, and caning, in which He said something along the lines of, “I think I’m going to make you safeword.” And it got me thinking… I’ve never truly safeworded. Once, when He was tickling me–non-sexually–and once during an argument. Read more…
Lets face it, sex rocks. I imagine you feel the same too, or you probably wouldn’t be here reading this. But lately I’ve been thinking, us girls in our thirties, we’re a bunch of fun. We’re finally over our adolescent expectation of fairy tales and knights in shining armor. We fully Read more…
Relationship priority. It’s a concept that many of us may never have heard of, but it’s been on my mind for awhile now. It’s something I’d never heard of until a few years back, when I went out on my first date with a woman. After my date and the Read more…
Okay, so maybe a chick shouldn’t be writing about the perfect blow job. It very well might be a job for a man. But I’m not 100% sure on that. I don’t know if my Hubby has the slightest clue what I’m doing with my hands, mouth, and tongue when Read more…
For years, I hated 69ing. Too young and too insecure about my body, I was uncomfortable being exposed and having my most private parts on display. And then I met my Hubby. The visual creature that he is, 69ing was (and still is) one of his favorite positions. Oh, I’d Read more…
Let’s face it, masturbation is fun. And it’s a great activity to spend time doing when you’re bored. That’s why I’ve decided to give you a list of reasons to masturbate, get your hands a little dirty, and get yourself off. So without further ado, here we go. Masturbation Feels Read more…