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Reader's Questions

My Partner’s Not Out and I’m Not Sure What to Do

Dear Molly, My and my boyfriend got together and it’s been going great until we’re at our performing arts college (which is SO supportive of LGBT relationships) where he doesn’t give me much affection and our conversations feel quite surface level. He hasn’t come out to his parents yet and fears if Read more…

By Molly, 6 months ago
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Reader's Questions

How to Have an Active Sex Life When You Have Young Kids

This week’s reader question is one I get a lot. Basically, how the hell do you have an active sex life when you have young kids at home? I had three kids in four years. While sex was always an important part of my relationship, when the children were young, Read more…

By Molly, 7 months ago
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Erotica

Reader Question: I Want to Write Erotica, But I Have Some Concerns

This week’s reader question focuses on how to write erotica. Dear Molly, I’m a guy wanting to write erotica shorts, but I’m hesitant because of the cliché that people who write erotica are constantly aroused and masturbating. I was hoping you could offer some advice. Is there a scene you Read more…

By Molly, 12 months ago
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Reader's Questions

Help! I’ve Never Had a Relationship. I’ve Never Had Sex. And It’s Impacting My Life.

Dear Molly, I’m 25. And I’ve never had sex. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship. Never even kissed a girl… I’ve liked girls, but my feelings have never been reciprocated. I’ve even tried dating apps. I have no options for friends with benefits. My guy friends tease me. And Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Oral Sex

What does it feel like for a woman to have her vagina sucked?

This week’s reader question about having the vagina sucked is actually a question Quora shut down. Fuckers. So if it sounds familiar, and you follow me over there, there’s a chance you’ve already seen this. So… This is a tricky question. See, you can’t really suck a woman’s vagina, because Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Can I Help My Girl Have More Bedroom Confidence?

Can men help women in the confidence department, as in bedroom confidence? Or is that an area that a woman has to do herself? You can totally help your woman gain confidence in the bedroom, but it can take some time and you’ve got to be patient with her. Putting Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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I'm Molly and I'm here to help you discover and create the sex life you've always wanted. Welcome to Your Best Sexual Self.

Molly Carter
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Intimate Communication: What It Is and How to Make It Happen.
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Sometimes the hardest part of giving a good blow job is finding the right rhythm. Check out this video to learn what you can do!

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Blowjob 101: Rhythm
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In this video, I help you learn how to avoid your teeth when you've got a penis in your mouth and give you some tips for when you're really struggling. 

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Blowjobs 101: Watch those teeth edition!
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If you've ever wanted to know more about female ejaculation, you've come to the right place! Here's your guide to squirting orgasms!

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Squirting 101: Your Guide to Female Ejaculation
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The final video in my Blow & Glow Couple's Kit review (finally, I know!).
Review of the Blow & Glow Videos
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Are you a novice lover? Worried about the pleasure your partner is experiencing? Check out this video where I cover how to touch a vulva and bring more pleasure to a sexual experience.

Please excuse my lighting issue!

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How to Touch a Vulva with Your Fingers and Mouth: The Fundamentals
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If you or your partner have a small penis or struggle with quality erections, check out this video with 4 ways to compensate (if you feel you need to).

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4 Ways to Compensate for a Small Penis or Soft Erection
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ExSoullent Yoni Egg Set Review
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5 Communication Barriers Standing in the Way of Intimacy
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