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Become a Better Lover

Reader Question: How to Be a Dominant Man in Today’s World

Check out this reader’s questions, all about how a dominant man can navigate the modern #MeToo world. Hey Molly, From a guy´s perspective, it seems culture is changing very rapidly. The #MeToo movement (which I totally understand and support) proposes that relationship dynamics, where a guy is in a dominant Read more…

By Molly, 4 months ago
Reader's Questions

My Partner’s Not Out and I’m Not Sure What to Do

Dear Molly, My and my boyfriend got together and it’s been going great until we’re at our performing arts college (which is SO supportive of LGBT relationships) where he doesn’t give me much affection and our conversations feel quite surface level. He hasn’t come out to his parents yet and fears if Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Reader's Questions

How to Have an Active Sex Life When You Have Young Kids

This week’s reader question is one I get a lot. Basically, how the hell do you have an active sex life when you have young kids at home? I had three kids in four years. While sex was always an important part of my relationship, when the children were young, Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Erotica

Reader Question: I Want to Write Erotica, But I Have Some Concerns

This week’s reader question focuses on how to write erotica. Dear Molly, I’m a guy wanting to write erotica shorts, but I’m hesitant because of the cliché that people who write erotica are constantly aroused and masturbating. I was hoping you could offer some advice. Is there a scene you Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Reader's Questions

Help! I’ve Never Had a Relationship. I’ve Never Had Sex. And It’s Impacting My Life.

Dear Molly, I’m 25. And I’ve never had sex. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship. Never even kissed a girl… I’ve liked girls, but my feelings have never been reciprocated. I’ve even tried dating apps. I have no options for friends with benefits. My guy friends tease me. And Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
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Oral Sex

What does it feel like for a woman to have her vagina sucked?

This week’s reader question about having the vagina sucked is actually a question Quora shut down. Fuckers. So if it sounds familiar, and you follow me over there, there’s a chance you’ve already seen this. So… This is a tricky question. See, you can’t really suck a woman’s vagina, because Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Can I Help My Girl Have More Bedroom Confidence?

Can men help women in the confidence department, as in bedroom confidence? Or is that an area that a woman has to do herself? You can totally help your woman gain confidence in the bedroom, but it can take some time and you’ve got to be patient with her. Putting Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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