I wrote this piece about sexual freedom nearly a decade ago. I've pulled it back out of the archives in recognition of the Trans Day of Visibility, wh
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Oh, the 5 Love Languages! While it may be easy to figure out you're own, your partner's love language may be hard to determine. This is the story of m
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Today's video discusses two common BDSM principles: Safe, sane, and consensual Safe words Watch the video to see how applying these two kin
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Coming back at ya with another post (and video) on the orgasm gap! This time, it's the orgasm gap for women and what role we need to play to shrink th
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I often get emails from readers. Messages on Quora. Comments on the blog. Where people share how my words helped improve their sex life or relationshi
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If you want to heat up your sex life and heat it up fast, forget that you've been together for decades and act as though it's an affair. I guarantee y
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It's time we get real and talk about sex and coronavirus and how we can deal with it all in our relationships. Who would have thought quarantining wo
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How a dirty little secret can turn you on and get you randy Last week, I interviewed at a private local college for a writing position in the
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I find it interesting that I am sitting here , writing about being married vs. single. I've never been single. Sure, I've had a few weeks here, a few
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With day jobs and three kids at home, sometimes it's easy to forget the little things in your relationship. It's easy to go about your day, moving fro
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