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Have Better Orgasms

Faking Orgasm: Is It Ever Okay?

Is faking orgasm ever okay? I’d like to say no. No. No. No. Watch the video to find out why! As always, if you don’t do the whole YouTube thing, keep reading! Lots and Lots of People Fake Orgasms. So while the general population doesn’t seem to have an issue Read more…

By Molly, 9 months ago
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Edging Basics: What It Is, What It Does and Why You Should Try It

Here are your edging basics for beginners! Check out my latest YouTube video that discusses edging basics for folks who’s never played with orgasm control. Check it out, and be sure to subscribe while you’re there! So edging. What the hell is it anyway? Edging is a technique used to Read more…

By Molly, 9 months ago
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Have Better Orgasms

Delayed Ejaculation: What Causes It and What You Can Do About It

Delayed ejaculation… While it may sound like a blessing, it’s actually not. Check out my YouTube video about the condition. You’ll learn the causes of delayed ejaculation and what you can do to make it more likely for you to finish with your partner. Be sure to subscribe to my Read more…

By Molly, 10 months ago
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3 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate (And They’re Not What You Think)

In this week’s YouTube video, I give you three reasons you should masturbate and foster your sexual wellness. Go check it out! And be sure to subscribe while you’re there! As always, if you’d rather read, here’s the Cliff Notes version of the video. First and foremost, masturbation is a Read more…

By Molly, 12 months ago
oxytocin helps relationships
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Oxytocin and the Role It Plays in Your Marriage (or why you need to have lots of sex)

Oxytocin. Sex. Your happily ever after. Any idea what the three have in common? A whole damn lot. If you don’t know this about me, I geek out on the intersection where sex and science meet. And if it has to do with the brain, #swoon! You won me over Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Have Better Orgasms

Use Seduction to Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine (& Relationship)

Today I want to talk to you about one of my favorite past times. Self love. Self pleasure. Or, more commonly referred to as masturbation. But I don’t just want to talk to you about any masturbation. I want to talk to you about a specific masturbation event. One in Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Orgasm gap for women
Have Better Orgasms

Orgasm Gap for Women: Be Responsible for Your Own Orgasm

Coming back at ya with another post (and video) on the orgasm gap! This time, it’s the orgasm gap for women and what role we need to play to shrink the gap and start having more pleasure and orgasms. If you missed it, you can catch the first part of Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Orgasm gap for men
Have Better Orgasms

Orgasm Gap for Men: Get Her Off Before You #$%& Her

Oh. The Orgasm Gap. The phenomenon that occurs in heterosexual relationships where men reach orgasm significantly more than their female partners. Here’s my advice on the orgasm gap for men! Check out my video to learn the reasons the orgasm gap exists and one of my solutions to fixing it: Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
squirting water
Have Better Orgasms

Squirting: Is female ejaculation real and is it urine?

This week, I address a reader’s question about squirting, and how much fluid she actually ejaculates. Hi Molly, I would like to ask you about female “squirting”. I’ve noted you refer to it from time to time, but I’ve been skeptical about this. To clarify; I’ve only seen squirting on Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Have Better Orgasms

Prostate Play: Your Ultimate Guide

The ultimate guide to prostate play and your man’s pleasure center. Before we get started, I need to let you know a few things. If you are reading about prostate play, I’m going to assume a few things about you.  That you’re relatively sexually experienced.  That you enjoy sex,  are Read more…

By Molly, 3 years ago

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About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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Molly Carter

I'm Molly and I'm here to help you discover and create the sex life you've always wanted. Welcome to Your Best Sexual Self.

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Intimate Communication: What It Is and How to Make It Happen.
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Sometimes the hardest part of giving a good blow job is finding the right rhythm. Check out this video to learn what you can do!

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Blowjob 101: Rhythm
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In this video, I help you learn how to avoid your teeth when you've got a penis in your mouth and give you some tips for when you're really struggling. 

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Blowjobs 101: Watch those teeth edition!
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If you've ever wanted to know more about female ejaculation, you've come to the right place! Here's your guide to squirting orgasms!

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Squirting 101: Your Guide to Female Ejaculation
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The final video in my Blow & Glow Couple's Kit review (finally, I know!).
Review of the Blow & Glow Videos
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Are you a novice lover? Worried about the pleasure your partner is experiencing? Check out this video where I cover how to touch a vulva and bring more pleasure to a sexual experience.

Please excuse my lighting issue!

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#pleasure #sexskills #vulva #oralsex #fingering
How to Touch a Vulva with Your Fingers and Mouth: The Fundamentals
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If you or your partner have a small penis or struggle with quality erections, check out this video with 4 ways to compensate (if you feel you need to).

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4 Ways to Compensate for a Small Penis or Soft Erection
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Watch my review of the Rose Quartz Yoni Egg Set by ExSoullent and an overview of their other products.
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ExSoullent Yoni Egg Set Review
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5 Communication Barriers Standing in the Way of Intimacy
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