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molly talking about faking orgasms
Have Better Orgasms

Faking Orgasm: Is It Ever Okay?

Is faking orgasm ever okay? I’d like to say no. No. No. No. Watch the video to find out why! As always, if you don’t do the whole YouTube thing, keep reading! Lots and Lots of People Fake Orgasms. So while the general population doesn’t seem to have an issue Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Molly talking about edging
Become a Better Lover

Edging Basics: What It Is, What It Does and Why You Should Try It

Here are your edging basics for beginners! Check out my latest YouTube video that discusses edging basics for folks who’s never played with orgasm control. Check it out, and be sure to subscribe while you’re there! So edging. What the hell is it anyway? Edging is a technique used to Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Molly talking about delayed ejaculation
Have Better Orgasms

Delayed Ejaculation: What Causes It and What You Can Do About It

Delayed ejaculation… While it may sound like a blessing, it’s actually not. Check out my YouTube video about the condition. You’ll learn the causes of delayed ejaculation and what you can do to make it more likely for you to finish with your partner. Be sure to subscribe to my Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
molly on why you should masturbate
Have Better Orgasms

3 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate (And They’re Not What You Think)

In this week’s YouTube video, I give you three reasons you should masturbate and foster your sexual wellness. Go check it out! And be sure to subscribe while you’re there! As always, if you’d rather read, here’s the Cliff Notes version of the video. First and foremost, masturbation is a Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
oxytocin helps relationships
Have Better Orgasms

Oxytocin and the Role It Plays in Your Marriage (or why you need to have lots of sex)

Oxytocin. Sex. Your happily ever after. Any idea what the three have in common? A whole damn lot. If you don’t know this about me, I geek out on the intersection where sex and science meet. And if it has to do with the brain, #swoon! You won me over Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Molly
Have Better Orgasms

Use Seduction to Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine (& Relationship)

Today I want to talk to you about one of my favorite past times. Self love. Self pleasure. Or, more commonly referred to as masturbation. But I don’t just want to talk to you about any masturbation. I want to talk to you about a specific masturbation event. One in Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Orgasm gap for women
Have Better Orgasms

Orgasm Gap for Women: Be Responsible for Your Own Orgasm

Coming back at ya with another post (and video) on the orgasm gap! This time, it’s the orgasm gap for women and what role we need to play to shrink the gap and start having more pleasure and orgasms. If you missed it, you can catch the first part of Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Orgasm gap for men
Have Better Orgasms

Orgasm Gap for Men: Get Her Off Before You #$%& Her

Oh. The Orgasm Gap. The phenomenon that occurs in heterosexual relationships where men reach orgasm significantly more than their female partners. Here’s my advice on the orgasm gap for men! Check out my video to learn the reasons the orgasm gap exists and one of my solutions to fixing it: Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
squirting water
Have Better Orgasms

Squirting: Is female ejaculation real and is it urine?

This week, I address a reader’s question about squirting, and how much fluid she actually ejaculates. Hi Molly, I would like to ask you about female “squirting”. I’ve noted you refer to it from time to time, but I’ve been skeptical about this. To clarify; I’ve only seen squirting on Read more…

By Molly, 2 years ago
Have Better Orgasms

Prostate Play: Your Ultimate Guide

The ultimate guide to prostate play and your man’s pleasure center. Before we get started, I need to let you know a few things. If you are reading about prostate play, I’m going to assume a few things about you.  That you’re relatively sexually experienced.  That you enjoy sex,  are Read more…

By Molly, 4 years ago

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About YBSS

I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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