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Sexual Health

Coffee W/ Molly: Sex Is Important, Let’s Stop Pretending It’s Not

Hey y’all. Here’s a new coffee with Molly for you, all about why sex is important, not just for our relationships, but for our health and wellness, too! Be sure to like and subscribe! So here’s the deal. I got booted from my first subReddit last night. I feel like Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Reader's Questions

My Partner’s Not Out and I’m Not Sure What to Do

Dear Molly, My and my boyfriend got together and it’s been going great until we’re at our performing arts college (which is SO supportive of LGBT relationships) where he doesn’t give me much affection and our conversations feel quite surface level. He hasn’t come out to his parents yet and fears if Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
sexless marriages
Relationships

Coffee W/ Molly: Bullshit Information on Sexless Marriages

This morning I was reading a book about sexless marriages while I was enjoying my morning coffee and I got a little frustrated about the bullshit they were spewing about sex. Here’s a video about it. (I was still in my PJs for goodness sakes!) If you’d rather read about Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Relationships

This Is Why You Sometimes Need to Be Selfish in Your Relationship

Sometimes, it’s okay to be selfish in your relationship. Yep. I said it. Because it’s true. Check out this YouTube video to find out why. Or just scroll past it for the written version! Be sure to subscribe while you’re there!! Why you need to be selfish sometimes… So… Life Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
Anal Sex

An Anal Sex Q&A: This Week’s Reader Question

Dear Molly, If sex is meant to share intimacy and make babies, why is it that some girls do anal sex? I think anal sex is not natural, where vaginal sex is, and also painful. This is my thought only and I respect every individuals personal choice and preferences. In Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
molly low testosterone
Sexual Health

10 Ways to Naturally Improve Low Testosterone

Low testosterone, commonly referred to as Low T, is a common problem for senior men. Check out my latest video, which gives you 10 natural ways to improve low testosterone. For those of you who like the written version, drop down below the video to get the text version of Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
kids having pillow fight
Reader's Questions

How to Have an Active Sex Life When You Have Young Kids

This week’s reader question is one I get a lot. Basically, how the hell do you have an active sex life when you have young kids at home? I had three kids in four years. While sex was always an important part of my relationship, when the children were young, Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
controlling sexual urges
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: How Do I Control My Sexual Urges?

This week’s reader question is all about controlling those sexual urges! Dear Molly, I am a young man and probably going through some changes mentally and physically, but how do I distract myself from fantasizing about sexual things? I’m attracted to women , especially those from ages 35 – 45 Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
women and sexless marriage
Reader's Questions

Reader Question: Women & Sexless Marriages – Do They Even Care?

This week’s reader question comes from YouTube and focused on women and sexless marriages. Why do wives think sex isn’t important during marriage, but while dating, they had sex more?   Well, there are a lot of ways to answer the question this question as I think there are various Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago
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Become a Better Lover

Mutual Masturbation: 5 Reasons to Give It a Try Tonight

Mutual masturbation may not be something you’d normally consider when thinking of spicing up your relationship, but I’m here to tell you, it can and does. Watch my newest YouTube video (go ahead and subscribe while you’re there) and check out five reasons you should give mutual masturbation a try Read more…

By Molly, 1 year ago

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I talk about sex the way most people talk about the weather.

It’s not that I’m trying to be vulgar (that’s really just a bonus). It’s that I’m straight-up about sex. I talk about fucking like it’s a normal part of life.

Because it is.

And I’m not embarrassed about it.

In it’s original form, Your Best Sexual Self started as a place for me to hone my writing skill and talk about something I loved, sex. It’s grown into a learning center to help you, dear reader, discover and create the sex life you’ve always wanted, whatever that entails.

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