sexual freedom is not censorship

Sexual Freedom Starts with Us

I wrote this piece about sexual freedom nearly a decade ago. I’ve pulled it back out of the archives in recognition of the Trans Day of Visibility, which was yesterday, March 31. But this isn’t about being trans. Or gay. Or bi. Or any of the things. But it is Read more…

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A Dominant’s Duty

The hubby and I were having a random conversation about spanking, whipping, and caning, in which He said something along the lines of, “I think I’m going to make you safeword.” And it got me thinking… I’ve never truly safeworded. Once, when He was tickling me–non-sexually–and once during an argument. Read more…